- To build an intimate relationship, love is not enough, we need also the attraction and trust, need, besides love, I feel that there is something in you that draws me, fascinates me, which I like, I move that leads me to think of you ... need to trust you.
confidence in an intimate relationship involves a degree of sincerity to the other that I do not contemplate the possibility of lying.
And we should become aware that love, attraction and trust are things that happen or not happen ... and when the relationship can not happen to be good, but not intimate, if not intimate, not transcendent.
I can do things to keep me from loving myself, but I can not make a decision, not a decision I can trust, I can not be attracted by decision, nor gratitude nor stories, it's just something that happens or not, something that remains or has ceased to happen ...
And, it is useless to want to stay in time with what is gone, and there is no point believing that the sacrifice might last beyond their time. If I sacrifice mutilate me, if I cancel my life for you I can get your pity, your contempt, your consideration ... maybe your gratitude, but I can never get that you love me for that ... So, even up to you ... To make our lives something worth living.
I think sometimes we forget what that phrase means, we repeated all the time "worth it" "Not worth that," and we do not realize that we are worth talking about ... punish it ... for those things we love, punish it for things that matter, it grieve for those intimate encounters that generate committed to transcend time ... - Jorge Bucay
